The Story of Us (Podcast)

25 years of friendship means respect should be a given, communication should be honest, and Love should be the purpose. Aziz & Jerri don’t just celebrate the 25 years of friendship, they celebrate the Dedication, Devotion, Honest, and Trust they put into their friendship. See how they built a young romance into a great friendship and into a podcast of purpose. AccountableLove isn’t an emotion, it is a promise….

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Discussion #24 The struggle of AccountableLove

The “AccountableLove Podcast” team are not victims. We chose the enormous task of redefining Love as a faith and not an emotion. Yet, sometime the task is a struggle. The struggle comes with asking people to redefine the unhealthy relationships they are in. Relationships that are uncomfortable but sold as comfortable in the name of “Love”. When asking them to listen to reason, they accept health as being unreasonable. It comes a time when we have to look our children in the face and say, “Our children deserve a better example of Love”. “They deserve AccountableLove”.
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Discussion #23 Stop using Trauma as a crutch

Yes, We should communicate our past pain with our new partners. Why? 1) They should have a clear understanding of who we are and our past will highlight that. 2) We want to explain what we will not tolerate. 3) We want to assure we have learned from that pain. But, we should never use our pain to control a future relationship. The trauma is a source of reference not crutch. Our future partnerships are signs that we have healed and are ready for something greater in our lives. We chose better, we overcame unimaginable odds, and we forgive those people and are moving forward. Trauma didn’t break us, it made us understand that we can shine in the worst situations.
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Discussion #22 -Who’s the Manipulator

Have you ever felt like you are carrying the relationship by communicating your thoughts, taking the lead on ideas, and always expected to give all of yourself. Just for a silent partner or friend to call you controlling or a manipulative. Did you know you were silently being judged? Well, listen to this Podcast and find out “Who’s the Manipulator”. You might get a new outlook on life.
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Discussion #21 Respect Isn’t The Enemy

Aziz & Jerri are at it again. They are touching on respect and how it plays a part in building healthy relationships. Respect is admiring someone deeply as a result of their abilities , qualities or achievements . So, before entering any relationship make respect a prerequisite which circulates throughout the relationship. Respect needs a clear definition in the beginning and acted on for the entire the relationship. We must want that respect. So, fear of losing that respect should govern our actions….
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Discussion #20 – Stop Playing Victim

We have been in relationship where we have all been victimized, but we chose to become victims. Being taking advantage of for being vulnerable is wrong, but we need to make a conscious choice to find someone who will see the strength in being vulnerable. If we stay, we are apart of the problem. Aziz & Jerri explain how we must always take responsibility for the roles we play in an unhealthy relationship. Whether we stayed too long, weren’t clear in the beginning, or chose were selfish. Look in the mirror….
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Discussion #19- What makes you my Friend?

Aziz & Jerri are great friends. They have a healthy relationship. They invited their friend Jasmine as a guest on the podcast to talk about what makes a friend a friend. They discuss the problems that have had connecting, how they kept the lines of communication open at the tough times, and they talk about what healthy friendships look like. Friends for some on the most important people in our lives. They hold a percentage of our happiness in your hands. Being vulnerable and finding joy in having raw discussion is where the health starts….
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Discussion #18 -Why isn’t Happiness yours?

Is Happiness a choice? Aziz & Jerri remind their listeners that happiness exist. As a society, we tend to believe happiness is a fleeting emotion and misery is a definite. But, Happiness is a state of being. It is a mentality, regardless of what comes your way. You have to aspire to keep up that state of being. Just like people get depressed, there is a way to a positive state such as happiness. This Discussion will explain ways to support that state.
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Discussion #17 -Hear a Man Out

Women upon meeting a man, you know whether you’re attracted to them or not. Why not just go for it? Men are sure that women get tired from being approached by several men a day. But, when the right man approaches them, why make them work. If the interest is there, why not make them the exception? Aziz & Jerri get there ideas on this topic. They are a man and woman talking about their experiences in this department. Maybe some questions will get answered….
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Discussion #15 – Force Out of Our Control

Control what you can and what you can’t don’t try to control it to suit you. Join Aziz and Jerri in this discussion as they talk about how to handle the external factors that can weigh a relationship down. Focus on the goal , focus on your partner, and let go of what you cannot change.
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Discussion #14: Unconditional Love vs. Accountable Love

We were raised to believe that Love has no conditions yet we hold our partners and friends to a standard.  Are we holding  each other Accountable? Relationships should hold each other Accountable to be their best, to make decisions in absence of selfishness.  Join Jerri and Aziz in dissecting the definitions of  Unconditional Love vs. Accountable Love .

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Discussion#13: Passive Aggressiveness is not Open Mindedness

We will agree to disagree. Why are we not trying to dissect why we are disagreeing. Discussions are to be held to make sure that each person gets what they want. If you are working toward a common relationship goal ; communication and being open-minded is key. Conflict is not easy but starting the conversation is necessary if you want to truly have an AccountableLove!!

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